Reposted with permission from The Thoughts.

Sex. Such an ugly word. Not like fuck. That’s a great word.

Now, onto what I really want to say in this one.

People have an aversion to sex. This is something I don’t really understand. It’s a basic human principle. People need (yes, need), to climax whenever possible. It’s been proven. I’ll even link to an article about it. There, I’ve done my fucking civic duty.

It’s just fucking wrong to talk about sex.  Why?  Why the fuck should I watch what I’m talking about around children?  “Children should be protected from things”.  WHAT THE FUCK?  Walk down the fucking street.  All you see is sex.  Don’t deny it.  Theres sex on the billboards.  Theres sex in the shops.  And I’m not talking about porn.  Just sex.  Seduction.  That’s how people attempt to sell things.  Not on how good the shit is, but on how sexy the models are.

Not only that, but we need sex.  As a species.  With out it, our species dies.  Simple as that.   No shit.  We die.

So, what’s the fucking point?  We need more sex in our lives.  That’s the point.  We need to get out of the idea that sex is something that is taboo.  It’s not.  It’s something we fucking need.  And people need to realize that.  Not fucking stop talking when someone mentions it.  Not to fucking joke about it.  We need more sex.  Everyone does.  Even me (and my wife loves sex).  We need to get out of the idea that someone that has lots of sex is impure, and wrong.  Honestly, I think the holding till marriage is wrong.  How the fuck do you know that your mate is someone that you are sexually compatible with till you fuck them?  Fuck them first.  Fuck a few people before you get hitched.  It’s the only way to know.

So, go fuck someone today.

Artwork/Pics back up

Well, I just noticed that my art and pictures were no longer up.  Therefore, I have reuploaded all of them.

Difference between poly and open

This is a thought that came to me the other day.  What is the real difference between a Poly, and an Open relationship.  Obviously, different people are going to think differently about each, but here is my take on the two.

Polyamourus –

Multi-Love.  That’s what it means.  In other words, you have to be in a relationship with more then one person.  Not fucking.  Not playing.  But in a true, down to earth, relationship.  You have to have emotional give and take between yourself, and AT LEAST, two other people.  Not only that, but if your screwing another person who is not part of the relationship, then you have just brought in an Open Poly.  Confused yet?

A true poly is were everyone involved not only knows about each other, but EVERYONE is getting emotional attachment.  That doesn’t mean that everyone is fucking.  Three guys, three girls, and they switch partners, but there is also a love dynamic.  It could be that one of them is loved as leader, all the guys could view each other as brothers, or what have you.  There are so many things that it could come from.  But, the emotions have to be there.

And, yes, that does mean you can have poly with three people.  But, as everything else, you have to make sure everyone is getting the emotional cuddling that is needed.

Open –

An Open relationship is a bit different.  In this type, not everyone is involved with everyone.  Some are very open (IE:  You can fuck whoever, just remember who you love), others are strict (mine is, both of us have to agree on the other person.  Safer that way).  As above, you can have an open poly, but that brings in a world of confusion.  And, possibly, unsafe practices.

As in a conversation with an ex of mine.  Her open relationship has rules.  No hardcore play.  Sex, ok, light play, ok, but if she feels herself heading toward subspace, she stops it.  Nothing wrong with that.  Having rules set up before hand in the relationship when there’s any type of openness is a great idea.  It means that all parties know what’s happening, where the lines are, and all of that fun stuff.

Old friends

This is a bit of a different post then I normally make.  Well, then again, I haven’t been really posting all that much in the last few months.

A few days ago, one of my exes (really, the one that sent me down the road of BDSM) gets ahold of me through Yahell.  About a year ago, another ex did the same.

It just seems kinda odd, about once a year an ex gets ahold of me.  When I left them, they were….normal.  I don’t mean vanilla, but just kinda normal girls.  Wanted that one guy.  Key word, guy.

Now, both of them are bi, in Poly relationships.  Just, strangeness…….